Join a Victoria men’s group where men meet weekly across multiple nights to speak honestly, build discipline, and grow into grounded leadership inside a container that holds you to your word.
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A weekly Victoria men’s group for men who want real inner work, a tight-knit container, and accountability that turns insight into action.
City: Victoria | Captain(s): Max Clarkson, Nick Banks, Hugh Pollock, Forrest Feltam, Reid Thompson, Blair Finnie, Andrew March
In the Victoria men’s groups we sit together on a weekly basis for the purpose of healing, personal growth, and leadership development. Our groups are tight-knit, with strict attendance standards, which results in a secure and reliable container for the inner-work we do.
Our members practice speaking the truth, listening for the truth, and creating a disciplined container. We know how to hold space for one another’s feelings, and we also practice bringing the element of fire, challenge, and accountability to each other.
We seek to integrate and balance the four mature masculine archetypes: The King, Warrior, Magician, and The Lover along with illuminating and acknowledging their shadow elements. An integrated man is one who knows and accepts all parts of himself. This is our work.
If you’re looking for a place to grow alongside other men who are walking the path with intention, this is that place.
Location: Victoria
Day/Time: Mondays, Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays: 6-9pm
Members pay dues. 100$/mo
Attendance standards are strict
To join, you need to be available to meet on the night of the meeting.
If you’ve been searching for a men’s group in Victoria, this is a clear way in—built on truth-telling, deep listening, and accountability. Whether you join an in-person circle, stay connected online, or step into events, the standard stays the same: do the work, be real, and follow through.
In this Victoria men’s group, men work with the mature masculine archetypes—King, Warrior, Magician, and Lover—to build leadership that’s integrated, not performative. The work is practical: speak the truth, stay present under pressure, receive challenges cleanly, and lead yourself with discipline so it shows up at home, at work, and in your relationships.
Our community is guided by The Code of the Conscious Warrior designed by our founder Phil T. Mistlberger. It is a 14-point code of conduct that reflects the values of our brotherhood and provides a solid foundation to live by.
Read the Code
“This brotherhood has changed my life in many ways. I’ve learned a lot about self-awareness, compassion, accountability, and trust.”
“It’s so much deeper and impactful than I ever expected. I didn’t realize how much I needed the influence and connection of other conscious men.”
“I have been able to stay off of porn, engage in relationships with more energy, and create structure with consistency in my career goals. I’m connected and accountable to the growth I want in my life.”
“I can bring any issue or obstacle to these men and they will hold space, listen, get curious and challenge me to grow.”
“I’ve lost weight, started running, and begun to develop my own business. I’ve overcome a lack of purpose and turned a contentious relationship with my father into a nourishing and rewarding relationship.”
“Since joining the Brotherhood I have grown in every way possible. I have started two successful businesses and I am actually allowing myself to follow what my heart and soul want to do.”
“I’ve become a better leader, feel more confident and powerful, redefined my identity in true masculinity (rather than performative masculinity), healed my relationships with other men, and learned to identify and train leaders around me.”
“I’ve never been so vulnerable with any group of men in my life. I no longer play small, and I’ve found the strength to express my truth.”